My wife is very spiritual and balances our lives and beliefs beautifully, so I truly have no problems. I do not like her guru, though. I notice him eyeing her up every time she brings me along to a Satsang or the guruji’s get-together. It’s not even really “guru” like the way he holds her hand for blessings. This is not acceptable to me. She argued with me and complained that I had injured her feelings and faith when I told her about it. I believe the two get along, and I know the guru is planning something. How should I describe this to her?
Her tale: My husband is a practical person who doesn’t put much stock in spirituality or religion. He once said that my guruji has an immoral financial stake in me! How is that even possible? We can never conceive my guruji, who is quite loving, harboring such immoral views. He constantly coming up with new strategies to block me from seeing my guruji, and I’m so wounded by it. My spouse and I have stopped speaking, and neither of us is appearing to be giving in. This has an impact on our union. What ought I to do?
Vishal Bhardwaj, the founder and relationship coach at Forecasts For Success, offers the following advice: Exploring spirituality is a good thing to do. Spirituality has always been an indispensable ingredient in the quest for the highest level of personality. Nevertheless, a few dishonest and miscreants have tainted the purity of the aim. The need for a spiritual Guru is unavoidable, but choosing the proper one is entirely another matter.
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You must understand how much your wife values her spiritual teacher. She is incredibly deaf to the reality that you have witnessed. She has unwavering faith. It would be preferable if you could convey to her that you are only aware of the means and not opposed to her spiritual exploration. make her, as well understand that a Guru is not made of any extraordinary ingredients, he is the same individual of blood, flesh, emotion, and most important lust. He can be wrong too, and there are numerous instances we have seen here in our country. The so-called God men turn out to be debauched! Once she realises the truth, it will be easy for you.
